Coz's Expert Advice

How to Avoid Summer Camp Lice

by CCFKNY on July 9, 2011

BOO! Shampoo and ConditionerWhen we send our kids off to summer sleepaway camp, we warn them about poison ivy and sunburn, reassure them that they’ll make friends and hope that they won’t get too homesick. At lot of parents don’t even think about lice at summer camp. The campers aren’t allowed to keep food in their cabins to protect against ants, so of course camps are taking measures against other invaders.

The problem is that lice aren’t like other bugs. They hide in the hair, close to the scalp where they’re hard to spot. And the cleaner your kid’s hair is, the more lice will like it. Lice can’t jump, but they can crawl onto hats, hairbrushes and pillow cases and live for up to 2 days waiting to crawl onto a new head. And unlike ants, you can’t just attack them with bug spray.

But there are ways to keep your child lice free even at camp.

The first step is teaching them not to share. I’m not saying we want our kids to be greedy. There are plenty of things they should keep sharing. But they should never share items that lice like to hang out on, such as:

  1. hair brushes
  2. helmets
  3. hats
  4. pillows
  5. scarves
  6. jackets

That goes for all the time, not just at camp. But the camaraderie that sleepaway camp creates makes it easy for kids to forget to keep their baseball caps to themselves.

Tea tree oil is the strongest natural repellant of lice, and can scare away lice as they start crawling onto your child’s head. Hair products that contain tea tree oil are a great defense when kids unknowingly share infested items. So Cozy Boo! Shampoo and Conditioner contain tea tree oil to repel lice. If your kid didn’t take some to camp, consider bringing some along on visiting day.

But Cozy, you just told us that our kids need Swimmer’s Shampoo to prevent summer damage.

That’s true. The exact combination of products you use on your child’s tresses depends on a variety of factors. Boo! shampoo and conditioner work great together and back each other up. If your kid forgets to use the conditioner, they still have the shampoo working for them. If your child has come home from camp in past years without much damage to their hair, and they’re likely to forget about conditioner, then they’re better off with Boo! shampoo. But if your kid always come home from camp with summer damaged hair, and can be trusted to remember to use spray-in conditioner, then they should use Swimmer’s shampoo and Boo! conditioner to cover all their bases. Older kids can alternate Boo! shampoo and Swimmer’s shampoo while using Boo! conditioner–tell them to use Boo! most of the time, then switch to Swimmer’s shampoo when they’ve been swimming or their hair is feeling coarse.

On visiting day, and when the kids come home at the end of camp, check their hair for lice before the little pests can crawl onto your things and infect the rest of the family. Look for red, itchy bumps on the scalp as well as the bugs themselves. If you find them, ask your pediatrician for the best treatment.

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Summer means swimming to a lot of kids. They hurl themselves with abandon into pools, lakes and the ocean. They keep cool, exercise and have loads of fun. But the sun, saltwater and chlorine can do a lot of damage to your child’s hair. By the end of summer, their hair has the consistency of straw and sometimes even has a green/blue tinge to it. When kids come to my salons for their back-to-school haircuts, my stylists have to have their scissors sharpened because the hair is so coarse and damaged that it dulls the blades. Crazy, right!?

The good news is that protecting your kid’s hair from summer damage isn’t difficult at all.

  1. When they’ve been in the pool or the ocean, if there’s no time to wash their hair, rinse it with cold water. This removes some of the chemicals and salt that damage the hair’s follicle. It’ll also help prevent the lighter shades from turning green.
  2. When you do wash it, a clarifying shampoo, such as So Cozy Green Apple Swimmer’s Shampoo is the best. Clarifying shampoos are specially formulated to remove anything coating the hair–like chlorine. It washes out all impurities and leaves the hair soft. The natural ingredients in So Cozy Green Apple Swimmer’s Shampoo are awesome and people swear by its effectiveness. The orange extracts detox the hair and the aloe nurtures it leaving it looking healthy and shiny once again.

The best time to deal with summer hair damage is as it’s happening. Follow my two tips and your child will have soft, healthy hair when they go back to school.

(When a friend of mine suggested that I blog about one of my own products that she loves I was hesitant to do so. I don’t want to be one of those people who’s blog sounds like a sales ad most of the time. I am, however, enormously proud of my haircare line and feel that when it comes to children’s haircare products So Cozy is the best.)

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Sucker Lake CampingMost parents start planning their kids’ summer activities months before school lets out for summer, whereas some tend to wait until the last minute.  Although there are some benefits to waiting to the last minute, I highly recommend taking some time to plan for next summer, this summer!  It may seem crazy, but now is really the perfect time. If you start looking at camps in the winter, they’ll all be closed, and you won’t be able to visit. But when the camps are open for the summer, you can arrange to stop by and take a tour, see the campers in action, and decide if this camp is right for your kids.

It seems like such an enormous decision to pick out the right camp for your child when there are so many options to choose from. How do you even get started? I asked the experts, Ann & Dick Travis of The Summer Lady, the questions that people most frequently ask me at my salons. But first, the preliminaries:

  • Figure out if your child is ready for sleep away camp. If they can sleep at a friend’s house without needing you to pick them up before the next morning, they should be able to handle sleep away camp.
  • Identify your goals for your child this summer and select a camp that will help them meet those goals. Do you want an experience that will give your child self confidence and independence in a traditional setting that teaches main skills or do you want to concentrate on one area of expertise? (specialized sports, education, the arts, computers, etc)
  • Consider each potential camp’s basics: Length of stay, distance from home, cost, health or diet restrictions, special needs.
  • Communicate directly to the camp owner/director and be sure to ask the following questions:

The 9 Most Important Questions to Ask a Camp Director:

  1. How long have you owned and run the camp/program?
  2. Where do most of the campers come from?
  3. How do you handle homesickness?
  4. How much selection is there in the schedule? Is it structured?
  5. What is the level of competition?
  6. Are the doctor and nurses on site at all times? Nearest hospital?
  7. Are there religious services? Are they mandatory?
  8. What is the telephone/e-mail/visiting policy?
  9. What type of facilities do you have?

There are no right answers to any of these questions. Different kids are suited for different summer camp experiences. Once you have answered some of these basic questions you are on your way, with The Summer Lady’s help, to choosing the best option for your child. In the end it’s the people they meet–bunk mates, counselors, staff-and the new skills they learn that creates a successful summer.
Ann & Dick Travis are the founders and directors of The Summer Lady, a free advisory service for summer camps and teen summer programs. They are summer camp consultants who, for over 20 years have personally guided thousands of parents who are looking for the right match for their children’s summer interests.

They provide comprehensive, up to date information on more than 500 summer camps and programs. They include: domestic and International sleep away camps and programs from 1 week to full summer, community service programs, pre-college enrichment programs, teen travel, outdoor adventure programs, specialty sports camps, internships, theatre/art/ music camps, computer camps, weight loss camps, language immersion programs and many more. They supply parents with the directors’ names and contact information, videos, brochures, directions, and overnight accommodations near the summer camps. They will also help you plan any summer visits to camps in session. Because any camp or program, regardless of quality, can be made to look good on a website, Ann and Dick personally visit each location multiple times to check the quality of each of the recommended summer camp programs. Check out their website: The Summer Lady

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Negotiations and Hairdos

by Cozy on June 15, 2011

mohawk bikerWhen our kids are small, we have the luxury of making so many choices for them, especially when it comes to their haircut. When they’re very young, kids just go with the flow, which is why you don’t see many toddlers asking for the Bieber. But as children age, they want more of a say in their appearance. Since hair is our biggest accessory, they develop definite opinions on how they want to wear their hair.

I see a lot of negotiations going on in my salons. The kid wants a certain style, but mom is concerned about how it will look, how hard it will be to maintain and what the grandparents are going to say.

I see a lot of girls develop what I call The Barbie Syndrome around age 7. The girls want their hair as long as possible. The moms envision the added detangling time every morning and lobby for a shorter, more manageable style.

Or boys decide they want a buzz cut for summer and their parents are completely against it. This exact thing happened with my boys a couple of years ago. I refused their buzz cut requests before we sent them to summer camp, but on visiting day, I discovered that they’d gone ahead and gotten the buzz cuts at camp! I would’ve been angry on principle, except that they actually looked amazing and they were so much more comfortable without all that hair! What an interesting lesson for me-I learned that I’m not always right, and now I give them more leeway when haircut time rolls around. After all, it is their hair!

That’s not to say that we parents should always give kids the final choice of hair style. But we should give them a say in the decision and negotiate so that they’ll be happy with the final result. Of course, the child’s age is an important factor, both in how much choice they should have in choosing a hairstyle, and in how the style will look on them. People may wonder if a 16 year old with a mohawk has a bad attitude to go with the punk hairdo, but the same people will think that an 11 year old with a mohawk is cute and toddler with a mohawk is downright adorable!

One of the reasons I wrote my book is that grooming is an important part of self esteem. Kids should feel good about how they look and I wanted them to be able to feel good about their hair from an early age. And letting them use their hair to express their individuality is a big part of that.

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Dads Do Hair Too

by Cozy on June 8, 2011

Dad + Barbeque = AWESOMEA friend once told me that her entire extended family was staying at a hotel for a wedding. One curly-haired teen-aged cousin said that she wanted to blow her hair straight for the event, but worried that it would take too much time. Her father, a burly electrical contractor and cousin (a future carpenter) decided to tackle the job. They worked at the same time, following the young lady’s instructions, using multiple hair dryers and brushes until her hair was perfectly straight in plenty of time for the wedding. I wish I could see a video of this!

Teamwork and problem solving at its best!

We tend to think of hairstyling as a Mom thing, but with Father’s Day coming up, we should remember that Dads can do their children’s hair too, and many are interested in learning how.

Brushing or combing out knots is a great place to start learning. With practice, Dads can learn to detangle with the best of ‘em! Simply brushing or combing a child’s hair can be a great bonding experience. Plus, it can help Dad get comfortable working with their kids’ hair so they can move on to styling.

Low pigtails and high ponytails are simple, basic styles that take only a little practice (more bonding time!). The 5-Minute Styles from my book are also within the reach of most inexperienced parent hairstylists.

It’s important to make sure that Dad knows how to do what kids like, or he may just go with the styles he gave himself in his youth–like this Dad who gave his son a John Travolta blowout, when he really wanted the Bieber look.

Just think how much more smoothly your morning rush can be when either parent can do the kids’ hair!

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Curly Hair – Detangled

by Cozy on June 1, 2011

I get loads of questions about dealing with children’s curly hair, whether it’s at hairstyling classes or on Naturally Curly. How do you keep it from frizzing? How do you get the tangles under control? What products should you use with curly locks? As someone who has finally embraced her curly hair after years of attempting to keep it straight, I can help!

Taking care of curly hair properly will make a huge difference for your child, letting them embrace their curls, instead of wishing it was straight. If I had realized earlier that my curls could be really nice, instead of a frizzy, out of control mess, it would have saved me hundreds of hours sweating in my bathroom trying to blow my hair straight in 96% humidity! Keeping your kid’s curls beautiful is much easier and better for their hair than attempting to straighten it, and don’t forget how much better it is for your child’s self esteem.

So for starters, NEVER, EVER brush curly hair! Brushing the hair will unsettle the cuticle, causing frizz. Then how do you deal with knots? Instead, comb your child’s hair in the bath with a wide tooth comb while they still have conditioner in their hair. With the hair in one hand, start at the bottom of the strand, working your way up slowly but surely, one inch at a time, holding the hair at the bottom to prevent from tugging on the scalp. For very knotty hair, try So Cozy Lucky Lime Pre-Detangler instead of conditioner. Now here’s my secret weapon-do NOT rinse out all the conditioner. Leave in a little (mostly on the ends) to maintain little extra moisturizing, and then wring out all excess water. After bath, scrunch-in an alcohol-free styling gel or light styling cream into the hair to enhance the natural curl. I recommend So Cozy Groovy Grape Styling Gel for thicker, curlier hair. The alcohol free formulation won’t dry out the hair and will help maintain beautiful curls without looking wet or sticky. You will need to experiment with the amount of product needed to see what works. Start with a nickel-sized dollop on your palm and try to evenly distribute it through the hair while scrunching. For finer hair, try So Cozy Kooky Kiwi Styling Cream. It’s light enough that it won’t weigh down the curls, but will still help to keep hair shiny and frizz free.

For detangling at other times of the day, always use a detangler and use the same combing method described above. I recommend So Cozy Fruity Delight Detangler & Leave-In Conditioner. It’s like a magical potion! It contains hydrolized wheat protein and wheat starch to condition, protect and smooth the hair shaft. This makes it possible for you to comb through the tangles. To prevent tangles, try putting the hair back in loose styles during active times and at night for bed. They can wear their hair down for less physical activities and special occasions.

Last but certainly not least, definitely get a great haircut that will help to enhance the curls. Oftentimes, if there aren’t enough layers or the layers are too long, it will drag down the hair creating those straight hair sections on top. Ask for a stylist who’s experienced in making curly hair look its best!

As always, send me photos of your child’s new hair styles and I’ll post them on Facebook!  Good luck!

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IMG_5395Last Sunday, we held Cozy’s Master Class at the 2nd Avenue salon. It’s the same thing I’ve been able to do at some of the stops on my book tour. We demonstrate several hairstyles from Cozy’s Complete Guide to Girls’ Hair, the moms try them out on their daughters and we go around helping them get the hang of it. It’s so much fun seeing the delight on the little girls’ faces when they see how cute they look and realize that their moms are going to be able to do their hair like that at home whenever they want!  It’s even more fun seeing the delight on the mom’s faces when they see their daughter’s delight!

Since we were at Cozy’s instead of on tour, most of the moms and daughters there were Cozy regulars, which added a homey feel to the event. We also had some local bloggers in attendance from Macaroni Kid, The Digital Latina, Sensible Cents and Mommy Links. I just love getting a chance to talk to other moms, especially moms of daughters. I love my sons, but as an expert on girl hair, sometimes I need a little vicarious thrill, you know?

We started off with easy styles like the Bun and the Double Twist. Once everyone gained some confidence with those, we worked up to more challenging styles like the French Braid and the Headband Braid. Then we tackled every girl’s fave, the braid that (unnecessarily) strikes fear in the hearts of moms, the grand finale–the Heart Braid!

Everyone was so into trying the different styles that we all had an absolute blast. The girls were absolutely adorable and every girl left with her favorite hairstyle. I’m still hearing from the moms that they still need more practice, which I think is great! More mommy/daughter time while they braid and braid again!

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The French Braid
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A Cozy Corner

by Cozy on May 18, 2011

TilesWhen I first started Cozy’s Cuts for Kids, I set out to create an environment that was as kid friendly as possible. From the fun window displays to the DVDs and video games that entertain the kids during their haircuts, Cozy’s is the sort of salon kids would design for themselves.

When we were planning our third location on 2nd Avenue, I decided to let the kids have a hand in decorating the salon. We sent clients from our Madison Avenue store over to a nearby location of Our Name is Mud to paint tiles that we could use in the bathroom of the 2nd Avenue Cozy’s. It’s clear from looking at the finished product that the kids had a great time making their little works of art.

It’s so cheerful! And what variety! Some kids painted their names on their tiles. We have painted flowers, hearts and balloons. One child painted a fighter jet on their tile and one kid did a tribute to Martin Luther King Jr.’s Birthday. I keep trying to pick a favorite, and it’s just not possible. Everywhere you turn is another mini-masterpiece.

I’m so happy with how it turned out. Looking at those tiles always makes me smile and think of all our great, young clients who we’ve seen grow over the years.
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Things to Do in NYC with Kids

by Cozy on May 11, 2011

BrooklynBridgePeople coming to New York City for the first time sometimes wonder what on earth they’ll be able to do here with kids. While your children may not want to go shopping on 5th Avenue, or check out hip art galleries, there are plenty of activities in NYC that kids love.

Here are some of my favorites:

This list isn’t just for tourists!  My family has had many great outings exploring The Big Apple as if we were from out of town.  What a great way to see a city–through a tourist’s eyes!

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I Joined the Cult of iPhone

by Cozy on May 4, 2011

iPhone 4's Retina Display v.s. iPhone 3GI must admit that I was interested in switching to an iPhone for years, but to be honest, I was intimidated. A lifelong PC user, I didn’t know the first thing about Mac technology and it just seemed so foreign. I never even fully embraced my iPod. I used it, but I made my husband download my music and make playlists for me to listen to on my daily run.

But even I couldn’t deny the intense passion people had for their Mac gadgets. I could see that iPhone users absolutely love their phones and feel like they can’t live without it. It’s like being in a special, enlightened club that welcomes anyone smart enough to want to join. I never got that with Blackberry people. Don’t get me wrong–I know people are absolutely addicted to their Blackberries, hence the name “crack berry”! I was one of the addicts myself! It’s just a different kind of attraction.

When I thought about it, I realized that (at least in my case), the Blackberry addiction was fueled by the ability to communicate it gives you, but it ended there. The Blackberry is about utility, plain and simple. But the iPhone is about possibility! Which  is why I finally took the plunge and bought one.

I won’t lie and say that I don’t miss my Blackberry keyboard immensely. There is no contest between keyboard vs. keypad. If the two devices did exactly the same thing, no one in their right mind would ever choose an iPhone. Never! But that’s where the Blackberry’s superiority begins & ends. The iPhone simplifies your life, allows you to explore and do things that you never knew were possible, such as:.

  • I shopped & bought a pair of shoes on a 45 minute drive to visit a friend’s house (don’t worry, I wasn’t driving).
  • I’ve intensified my runs now that I track them with RunKeeper.
  • I make dinner reservations on OpenTable while I’m in a taxi .
  • I use my iPhone’s GPS for everything.
  • I was able to track the speed, altitude and routes on my recent snowboard trip with SkiTracker
  • Scrabble!
  • I listen to audio books during a run
  • Take pictures with the great camera & video.
  • I use voice notes to get verbal recipes from friends!
  • I read books wherever I am, whenever I want.

I could keep going, but if I rattle on for too long, you’ll just pick up your iPhone and check your e-mail.

I’d also be remiss not to mention the superior tech support provided by Apple. Have you ever been to The Apple Store?! Had I not received an iPad as a gift, I would never have been brave enough to make the leap from Blackberry to iPhone. The iPad allowed me to dip my toe in the pool and get used to the water. I’ve never been the type to just dive-in right off the diving board. I’ve always preferred the gradual ease in.

Considering how much I adore my iPhone and being a Mac person, that iPad (my gateway gadget) is the best gift I received in ages!

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